Daddy’s Girl
We thought that we would share this with you. September 16, 2012 is when we lost our girl. This song is very moving and we can relate to the story. A young man wanted to be with his daughter at Christmastime but could not. He told her that he felt very sad that he could not see her, so she asked him to send her a song. Much like me, I could not be with my daughter last Christmas so I sent her a hug. She still “My Daddy’s Girl”. I miss her so much.
Daddy's Girl (a song by North Bear)
Daddy's Girl (a song by North Bear)
The Four RosesWe thought that we would share this with you also. The day before my daughter’s funeral I was visiting with my granddaughters and my older granddaughter “Santana” noticed that someone miss-spelled my daughter’s name on her grave marker so I told her that it was just temporary and that I would bring her a headstone on Mother’s day with the correct information. She said “Can I have my artwork put on it also” and I said “Of course.” After she sent it to me I noticed that on one corner were four different colored roses and I asked her about the roses because I have seen them before. She said Mom had them as a tattoo on her ankle, the four roses represented her and her three children.
So in this poem are four roses that remind me of my daughter “Pamela-ba” and her little family. Call someone that you love today, don’t send a text, or Email, call them and listen to the sound of their voice. I can never hear my daughter’s voice again. The Pheasant Family |
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Welcome to our website "DistantHugs.com"
The idea of starting a foundation in the memory of our daughter came just recently and I would like to share my story with you. I received the news that my daughter had passed on into the spirit world late on a Sunday night. It is not news that you ever want to hear or believe. I cried for a long time and still do. I could not believe it. The next day I was talking with her mother and she had to make up her mind that day whether to give her a traditional funeral or cremation. I asked her if she would do something for me, if she would decide to give her a traditional funeral, and I told her this story.
You see about five years ago I sent my daughter a Christmas package for her and her children. She called me a few days later and said, “thank you, Dad,” for everything and then she went on to say, “Dad, what’s with the scarf though?" I gave her a scarf and I know it sounds kind of different but I had an idea that day. I could not be there to hug her so I told her, “put the scarf around your neck, flip one side over your shoulder and the other side over your other shoulder and that’s me hugging you." There was silence for a little while, then she said, “Dad, that is so sweet." Little did I know that she shared that story with her friends.
So I asked her mother to put that scarf around her so that she can feel my hugs as she goes on her journey, and she did. There was a scarf around her at the funeral. I shared the story with family members and friends that attended her funeral and many were touched and told me that they would like to do the same thing with their loved ones that live far away. We called it “distant hugging."
Pamela, now we call her Pamela-ba, was a daughter, a mother, a sister, an auntie, a cousin and just a great friend. Her smile and laughter was so contagious. She was a beautiful woman and will be missed by so many. She leaves behind two daughters and a son, also three brothers, a sister, a mother, a father, many relatives and great friends.
So a few weeks ago we asked our grandchildren what color scarfs they would like for Christmas and we sent one to each of them. I felt so good and felt that I was beginning to heal, so we started a business and called it “Distant Hugs."
So if you would like to give your loved ones a hug but can’t physically do it because of distance, send them a scarf like I did. It is a wonderful way to hug our loved ones.
We are in the process of creating a foundation in the memory of our daughter, Pamela May Pheasant. We would like to reach out and help single parents or children with deceased parents or both. We are praying that this tragic occurrence will help others and that more people will find ways to hug each other.
The Pheasant Family
You see about five years ago I sent my daughter a Christmas package for her and her children. She called me a few days later and said, “thank you, Dad,” for everything and then she went on to say, “Dad, what’s with the scarf though?" I gave her a scarf and I know it sounds kind of different but I had an idea that day. I could not be there to hug her so I told her, “put the scarf around your neck, flip one side over your shoulder and the other side over your other shoulder and that’s me hugging you." There was silence for a little while, then she said, “Dad, that is so sweet." Little did I know that she shared that story with her friends.
So I asked her mother to put that scarf around her so that she can feel my hugs as she goes on her journey, and she did. There was a scarf around her at the funeral. I shared the story with family members and friends that attended her funeral and many were touched and told me that they would like to do the same thing with their loved ones that live far away. We called it “distant hugging."
Pamela, now we call her Pamela-ba, was a daughter, a mother, a sister, an auntie, a cousin and just a great friend. Her smile and laughter was so contagious. She was a beautiful woman and will be missed by so many. She leaves behind two daughters and a son, also three brothers, a sister, a mother, a father, many relatives and great friends.
So a few weeks ago we asked our grandchildren what color scarfs they would like for Christmas and we sent one to each of them. I felt so good and felt that I was beginning to heal, so we started a business and called it “Distant Hugs."
So if you would like to give your loved ones a hug but can’t physically do it because of distance, send them a scarf like I did. It is a wonderful way to hug our loved ones.
We are in the process of creating a foundation in the memory of our daughter, Pamela May Pheasant. We would like to reach out and help single parents or children with deceased parents or both. We are praying that this tragic occurrence will help others and that more people will find ways to hug each other.
The Pheasant Family
Local business sends Distant Hugs to Sandy Hook families
January 7, 2013 -- Megan Moore of TV 7&4 has posted an article and video about Distant Hugs on UpNorthLive.com.
"Kenny Pheasant is the owner of Distant Hugs in Traverse City. Distant Hugs are embroidered scarves that people can send to friends and loved ones who are too far away to give a hug to." [Read the full article and watch the video...]
"Kenny Pheasant is the owner of Distant Hugs in Traverse City. Distant Hugs are embroidered scarves that people can send to friends and loved ones who are too far away to give a hug to." [Read the full article and watch the video...]
